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Episode Reflection: Radhika Dutt #60

Data isn’t wisdom, and productivity isn’t progress. Reflection is the missing mechanism that turns one into the other.

This week's reflection on the Curated Questions Podcast conversation with Radhika Dutt is, well, rather meta.

Very early in the discussion with this author, entrepreneur, and MIT grad, her reflections on intentional reflection cemented the concept for this week's work. It resonated because it was true.

Reflection has been a hit-or-miss practice for me over the years. I have read many books and worked for some of the Navy's best leaders, yet I've often missed the chance to ensure the lessons stuck. The mechanism by which we turn moments into meaning, experience into wisdom, and data into narrative is simple, but only if we make space for it.

Working alone from home since resigning from the Department of Defense in March, I've felt how easily each day merges into the slipstream of repetition. Few serendipitous moments exist to break the monotony on the round-trip from the home office desk to the kitchen for lunch. But reflection changes the texture of the day. Injecting small reflection moments reveals nuance by creating pockets where insights can emerge. Between calls, waiting for coffee, or picking up lunch, the ordinary becomes an opportunity for meaning.

I've built slide decks of lessons learned that sat on hard drives, collecting virtual dust. Radhika reminded me why:

"We don’t learn from experience; we learn from reflecting on experience."

I realize now the difference I could have made for decision-makers had I delivered wisdom-based reflections rather than data dumps. Deadlines and chaos often shaped my reports more reflections did. Blocking time to interrogate data and assumptions through intentional curiosity transforms data into insights, and insights into action.

Radhika's OLHA process institutionalizes the question, "What happened?" But data alone doesn't tell the story. Reflection is the bridge between "what happened," "so what," and "now what." The narrative that emerges becomes the meaningful stops we remember and rely on as we navigate our lives and decisions.

As we approach the year's end, it is a natural threshold for reflection. This is an invitation to experiment with small reflection triggers you might adopt in the new year: a pause before climbing out of the car, a phone-free lunch, or, as Radhika suggested, dedicating your walk or workout to reflection. The idea is to incorporate a workable practice into your existing schedule.

What blurry experiences are awaiting your reflection to provide clarity and produce wisdom?

tags: Radhika Dutt, Reflection, #60
categories: Meditation
Friday 12.05.25
Posted by Kenneth Woodward
 

Yesterday's best practices have become today's quicksand.

Organizations don't intentionally drive into disarray or failure. Instead, they find themselves there after following tried and true practices, processes, and assumptions initially developed to bring about success. However, just like my inattention to my daily diet, things can get out of whack, and painful stones develop, indicating a problem. There is an immense opportunity for growth and change when asking questions and then patiently listening to all the answers.

Yesterday's best practices have become today's quicksand. The ambition to ask hard questions pinches, but it is less painful than neglecting to address the issues and remaining mired in the ineffective practices of today.

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tags: questions, leadership, change management, program management, organizational development, self reflection, proactive leadership, business transformation, strategic planning, workplace culture, team dynamics, difficult conversations, organizational change, leadership mindset, performance improvement, strategic thinking, business agility, corporate culture, management lessons, leadership development, organizational behavior, process improvement, strategic leadership, workplace innovation, business strategy, executive leadership, organizational effectiveness, change initiative, leadership insights, professional development, management philosophy
categories: Leadership, Mentoring, Metrics
Tuesday 09.09.25
Posted by Kenneth Woodward
 

Questions are like sunlight; they reveal the beauty in the people around us.

As I took in the sight and reflected on the beauty, I understood that it was the light revealing the natural form of the cloud. If not for the sun's light, the clouds would have gone unnoticed as just another drab cotton ball tumbling across the sky. Then the insight struck: the clouds are like the people around us; in the right light, they are beautiful, and questions can be a means of light to draw out that beauty.

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tags: questioning, curiosity, leadership, connection, communication, empathy, relationships, workplace, colleagues, beauty, light, metaphor, Arizona, desert, clouds, perspective, understanding, listening, intention, genuine, conversation, humanity, nuance, resistance, love, golden hour, team building, professional development, personal growth, management
categories: Relationships, Leadership, Friendships
Friday 09.05.25
Posted by Kenneth Woodward
 

What truth is waiting for you to take an insight pause?

My dad lied to me. At 53, a decade after his death, my sister called with news: we had an older half-sister through our father. He and the rest of his generation took this sister's existence to the grave. It is a strange thing to have lived half a century only to discover a stranger's face resembles your father's more than your own.

Insights reveal the previously unknown and deserve space to breathe. Without this protected pause, fear prevents new understanding from taking root. In our information-saturated world, our humanity is revealed through our willingness to sit with uncomfortable truths long enough to find the insights that transform us.

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Sunday 07.27.25
Posted by Kenneth Woodward
 

What Gifts Do You Give To Your Future Self?

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The perfect gift is a gratitude fountainhead towards the giver. The receiver understands the resources of thought, time, money, and effort poured into the ideal selection, which causes the heart to leap. The receiver feels deeply known and loved.

During a discussion with Tim Ferriss, author Elizabeth Gilbert explained her concept of giving gifts to her future self. Gifts were found in the…

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tags: Elizabeth Gilbert, Tim Ferriss, Future Self, Gratitude, Habits
categories: Meditation
Tuesday 05.19.20
Posted by Kenneth Woodward
 

What Tempts You To Fear?

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What tempts you to fear? In our brain, the amygdala controls the "fight or flight" response to the information our senses detect. However, humanity doesn't respond in unison to each sensory input.

A bump in the night wakes us out of a dead sleep, to reach for the nightstand gun. Some joker behind a keyboard spends two minutes to create a meme threatening to take something you hold dear, and…

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tags: Fear, Self-Awareness, FOMO, Scary, Temptation
categories: Mentoring, Relationships
Saturday 05.16.20
Posted by Kenneth Woodward
Comments: 1
 

How Do Metric Results Influence Behavior?

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We embrace the metrics' intended consequences at the birth of the metric. The unintended consequences are vivid at its death.

Every parent has lived the dream of their child going to bed without complaint. The absence of this reality prompts a heavy negotiation and a variation of the "quickly to bed" metric. Each night sleep happens…

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tags: Metrics, Reward, Parenting, Business, Self-Awareness
categories: Metrics
Wednesday 05.13.20
Posted by Kenneth Woodward
 

What Are The Other Factors Influencing Success Or Failure?

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External and internal factors influence all research before science can be proven right or wrong. Advocacy increases the chances of continued funding to see a study to a conclusion and disappears when the champion changes jobs.

Inspecting research assumptions and testing protocols provides insight into the rigor to prove a point. A body of research struggled to link smoking to cancer, while…

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tags: Research, Critical Thinking, Questions, Vicki Seyfert-Margolis
categories: Research
Monday 05.11.20
Posted by Kenneth Woodward
Comments: 1
 

What Was The Moment You Realized, Because Of The Color Of Your Skin, The Rules Are Somehow Different For You?

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The revelation of the social order creates a distinct memory. The experience etched in the cornerstone of each life. Either it will be a life with the wind in your face adding resistance with every step, or pressing at your back, adding a lightness to each step.

Skin pigment does not reveal the character of the human wearing it, but rather…

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tags: Racism, antiracist, Ahmaud Arbery, Pigment
categories: Social Justice
Wednesday 05.06.20
Posted by Kenneth Woodward
 

How Do You Experience Care From Your Friends?

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A global pandemic is a perfect opportunity to understand why you call your friends, friends. The forced solitude allows for hands-free filtering to occur.

When you are no longer available to buy the round of drinks, are the same friends calling to check-in and chat?

How have these friends played a role…

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tags: Friendship, New Friends, Introspection, Self-Care
categories: Friendships
Monday 05.04.20
Posted by Kenneth Woodward
 
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