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#98 Ken Woodward: Paid To Say I Don't Know

" You do not knock on a door that's been painted over. One word scores the paint and reopens it." - Ken Woodward

Researchers paid people to admit when they didn't know something. Given access to AI advice, they almost never did.

The design made it startling. Participants could decline any question with no penalty. Guessing wrong cost them money. The AI advice they received was usually wrong. Every incentive pointed toward three simple words, and access to a machine nearly eliminated their willingness to say them.

What got suppressed wasn't accuracy. It was the willingness to be seen not knowing.

In this solo episode, Ken opens with a lie he told a friend in a room where nothing was at stake, then traces the same reflex through a sidewalk in Southeast D.C., five questions he couldn't answer, and a backyard conversation that ran five hours past its twenty-minute plan.

"I don't know" isn't a report on empty shelves. It's a doorway, and it's the only one.

What question are you avoiding because not knowing would cost you something?

This Curated Questions episode can be found on all major platforms and at CuratedQuestions.com.

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categories: Connection, Leadership, Listening, Mental Wellness, Personal Growth, Equity, Imagination, Strategy, Community, Politics, Problem Solving
Thursday 08.27.26
Posted by Kenneth Woodward
 

#95 Dr. Lani Watson: Even Socrates Didn't Ask: On the Hidden Power of Questions

" This aporia, this state of confusion and bafflement, is actually a fantastically exciting, liberating, intellectually stimulating place to be because you're really facing something that you don't know that you thought you did." - Dr. Lani Watson

Dr. Lani Watson has spent her career on a question most of us never stop to ask. What is a question, and why does it hold such power?

Known online as The Questions Doctor, Lani is a philosopher and the author of Q: The Hidden Power of Questions in a World That Wants Answers. In this episode, we sit with the idea that questions are a kind of everyday magic. A power we all carry and rarely notice. They change our brains. They change our relationships. They shape the very answers we receive.

We talk about Socrates and the gift of not knowing. We talk about a world racing toward answers, and what we lose when we rush past the question. We talk about who gets to ask, and who does not.

Come sit with the questions a while. There is power in the asking, and it belongs to all of us.

This Curated Questions episode can be found on all major platforms and at CuratedQuestions.com.

Be sure to subscribe to the weekly Curated Questions Dispatch newsletter for more fun with questions and curiosity! (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions)

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categories: Connection, Leadership, Listening, Mental Wellness, Personal Growth, Imagination, Creativity, Education, Innovation, Questions, Teachers
Thursday 08.06.26
Posted by Kenneth Woodward
 

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